GARDEN ROUTE NEWS - Moving from preschool into a formal schooling environment is a big step not only for young children but also for their parents. Doubts and anxiety often accompany this major move, but parents should aim to ensure a conscious transition which addresses specific issues that may arise, so that their child starts their school career on a solid foundation, an expert says.
“The increased demands and unfamiliar environment can be daunting, and children need to be eased into the new situation. Additionally, parental expectations can cause unnecessary pressure at this young age,” says AdvTech Junior Colleges general manager Trudie Gilmore.
When embarking on this exciting new life chapter, Gilmore says parents and guardians should remember the following:
Allow for making mistakes:
The lesson is in the learning, not only the outcome, notes Gilmore. “Parents should encourage their children to, where possible, think for themselves. Encourage ways to look after themselves such as dressing themselves, ensuring their book bags are packed, and looking after their belongings. Praise them for trying, even when they don’t get it perfectly right.”
Practise perseverance:
“Teach your child that when learning new things, it’s important that they keep on trying, even if they find things challenging. Don’t step in and 'fix' the situation, but rather guide, encourage and motivate,” says Gilmore.
Play nicely:
Junior school is an important social milestone, and the time when children need to start working and engaging in meaningful play with their peers, even if they don’t automatically get along. Encourage your child to be inclusive and kind, which will help them develop emotional maturity, as well as confidence.
Encourage curiosity:
“Talk to them about things, people and places when you are out and about. Listen to and answer their questions, nurture their love of reading and look things up on the computer together. Try to see the world through your child’s eyes, and talk and wonder about the everyday things you see and hear.
Help them manage stress:
Gilmore says parents must be prepared to help their children navigate and manage increased stress levels caused by more challenging schoolwork, homework, assessments, diversity within the school environment, after-school activities and possible bullying, "by limiting any additional pressure”, she says. “And remember, sleep is key. Children who get enough sleep are likely to be less short-tempered and better able to handle school stress.”
Our society is expecting more and more from children at younger ages, says Gilmore.
“Our job as parents and guardians is to help them understand and respond appropriately to these demands, and develop their emotional intelligence to set them up for a successful and productive school career.”
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